How to be safe whilst using the Internet

The Internet offers great experiences for adults and children. There are opportunities to improve your life, have some fun, enhance your education or pursue business interests. Young people are often enthusiastic Internet users, particularly of interactive services like Email, Chat and Instant Messaging. However, like many exciting activities, there are risky situations to deal with and hazards to avoid.

We are aware that many of our children have phones, tablets and gaming devices. Teaching children to be safe online and making responsible decisions is something we prioritise at Midsomer Norton Primary. We want our children to be safe from an early age and understand how to be responsible IT users. 

We teach discrete online safety lessons as part of our IT and through our PSHE scheme of learning. We want parents to support their children with the work we do at school. We see this partnership as the best way to protect and teach our children to be safe online. 

Useful links for parents:

Internet matters gives advice on how to set parental controls on a range of devices and gives practical tips on how to get the most out of their digital world. 

https://www.childnet.com/parents-and-carers is a resource to help you support your child to have a happy and safe online experience.

https://parentzone.org.uk/homeis a advice for families from Parent Zone’s experts.

Digital five-a-dayprovides easy to follow steps for supporting your children and parents to achieve a healthy and balanced digital diet. 



Golden Rules for family Internet useage

  • Keep personal information confidential. For example don't give out your name, age, or phone number.
  • Get to know the services and websites that your child uses.
  • Don't believe everything you read or see online.
  • Encourage children to tell you about anything they find that is suggestive, obscene, threatening or makes them feel uncomfortable.
  • Don't immediately blame the child if they receive or access something obscene - this may have been done accidentally.
  • Use the Internet as a family activity and if possible, keep the computer in a family room rather than in a child's bedroom.
  • Try to get to know your child's online friends as you would their other friends.
  • Try not to use the PC or the Internet as an electronic babysitter.
  • Set your own golden rules and after discussing them, stick them at the side of the computer.
  • Enjoy surfing!

Golden Rules for chat Online

Young people make friends easily, and are often willing to give out personal details like their email address, home address and phone numbers to those they meet online, especially if the child is using the Internet from a place they think of as "safe", like home or a friends house.

The content of chats may also be a problem. Children may be exposed to inappropriate language or ideas. They may be encouraged to send photos of themselves, even indecent pictures, and may be sent obscene images. Also, they may come into contact with people whose intentions are bad; there have been cases of young people being approached online by adults or adolescents who aim to develop a relationship with them in the real world, a relationship that might end in criminal activity.

The best advice for responsible adults is to talk frequently to young people about their experience of chatting online, getting then to explain what they do and discuss any problems that come up. Parents may recommend safe chat services or moderated chat rooms, but youngsters will sometimes still opt for other unsafe alternatives.

In particular, children should understand about "stranger danger", personal details and privacy, and that it is best to be a little cautious. They should think first before giving out personal information like an email address, phone number and home address. If they do arrange real life meetings with people they have met online, they should always tell an adult, take along someone they trust, and meet somewhere public.

If young people do have a bad experience, do report it so that it can be investigated. If it happens in a chat room, contact the operator of that website first. If it led to a real-life problem, contact the police.